No pain, no gain...
How far you all agree with this???
In my opinion, I only agree with it in particular things...
For example, in studies... I totally agree with it because you don't expect to get excellent result if you do not study... You must first sacrificed your time with your family, friends and your love one... This is only last for a period of time... Why not to sacrifice??? Now I only left 5weeks for my STPM... I will start to apply this from this moment... Because I wish to get an excellent result...
But I do not agree with it in some other things...
For example, love relationship... You don't expect you can get the heart of the one you loved even if you had sacrificed a lots for him or her... All this cannot be forced... If got no feel that means no feel... What you did maybe can make him or her feel "kam dong" (touched) but he or she may not love you as what you want... They may accept you as bf or gf but at last they may realized they don't really love you... So for what want to experience this kind of pain before and after??? Although in between may have sweet moment... But I rather don't want because mostly will content suffer more as before you get him or her you suffered by guessing "Who he or she like le?" then after get him or her, you also suffered from "What is in his and her mind actually? Am I really know about him or her?" After that when break up then only you know he or she don't really like you...
What for???
ALL SUFFER...
I advise girls do not like a guy who he don't like you... Girls just need to wait guys to come after you... Do not go after them... Girls suffer more...
Another example is friendship... This one I don't know how to write... Erm.. Is like sometimes you treated a friend very good but this doesn't means that friend will treat you as good as how you treated him or her... Actually one phrase can be use where chinese people love to say
"Yan kap yan yun"
